For sailors, music isn’t just entertainment; it’s a connection to home and loved ones, a comforting constant amid oceanic isolation. Life aboard a ship can be monotonous, but music breaks that monotony, creating moments of joy, nostalgia, and even unity among the crew.
A Diverse Playlist for Every Task
Onboard, the variety of music was staggering. You’d hear stadium rock blaring from one corner while country ballads or traditional Irish tunes echoed elsewhere. Some sailors preferred German polkas, while others queued up rap or rhythm and blues. Playlists were as diverse as the people creating them, often jumping from one genre to another without warning.
Music wasn’t just for leisure; it accompanied us during some of the most mundane tasks. Music was always playing, whether painting, scraping off rust, or tackling other repetitive chores. It became a key part of my routine while updating ship publications. After coordinating with the Operation Specialists and ensuring my Lead Petty Officer (LPO) was satisfied, I’d put on my headphones and let the music carry me through the work.
The Ashtabula’s Own Band
One of the unique traditions of the Ashtabula was its ship band. The band was entirely self-organised and made up of crew members who loved to play music. They practiced in their free time, using their personal instruments, and became a beloved part of ship life.
Their performances were a centerpiece of the steel beach picnics. These picnics, held on the main deck, were massive grill-outs that brought the crew together. Sometimes, the back of the ship was lowered into the water, making it easier for people to swim and get back on board. The band’s music added to the festive atmosphere, making these events cherished memories.
Care Packages and the Gift of Music
For sailors far from home, care packages were lifelines. Packed with sweets, granola bars, and the all-important coffee, they provided small comforts during long deployments. For many of us, though, music was the most valued gift. Loved ones would send CDs, tapes, or even handwritten notes listing new songs to check out. Those packages bridged the gap between the vast ocean and the familiar warmth of home.
A Nod to The Grey Lady
The importance of music and its role in a sailor’s life is one of many poignant details captured in The Grey Lady, an adventurous tale by Thomas DuLaney II. The book beautifully illustrates life aboard the Ashtabula, weaving together the challenges, camaraderie, and traditions that define a sailor’s journey. For anyone curious about this unique lifestyle, DuLaney’s words offer a window into the soul of life at sea, where music plays a vital, ever-present role.
Life at sea can be tough, but music—whether played through speakers, sung by a band, or cherished in care packages—is always there to soften the edges. It’s the soundtrack of countless memories, connecting sailors not only to home but to each other.